
Yet the challenge is often not the individual.
The challenge is the system.
When we don’t see systems, we fall out of the possibility of partnership with one another, we don’t understand one another, we make up stories about one another we have our myths and prejudices about one another; we hurt and destroy one another; we become antagonists when we could be collaborators we separate when we could remain together happily: we become strangers when we could be friends; we oppress one another when we could live in peace: and our systems – organizations, families, task forces, faith groups – squander much of their potential. All of this happens without awareness o choice-dances of blind reflex.
– Barry Oshry
The Self in the System
Self Awareness is the first intervention
The Invisible Contract
Organizations do not behave. Roles do
Seeing Patterns, Not Personalities
When we see the system, partnership becomes possible.

